Erotic Reclamation
S€x-positive, Liberation-positive, Aliveness-positive, Freedom-positive, Love-positive, Pleasure-positive
Erotic energy isn’t confined to the bedroom—it’s woven into every part of life.
It’s in the charge of a deep conversation, the anticipation of a first sip of wine, the way your body hums when you step into the unknown. We’re not keeping eroticism in the shadows or limiting it to s€x. We’re bringing it into the light, letting it infuse everything, letting it pulse through every moment. Because when we stop separating desire from life itself, the world becomes a whole lot more electric.
S€x isn’t just an act. It’s a nutrient.
Essential to your vitality, biology, and that full-body spark that makes life worth living. It’s as fundamental as food and rest—a core part of your being alive.
Yet, for so many, it lives in the shadows. It’s something taboo, shameful, or functional that leaves us with a quiet ache, a dulling of life force and a longing for more.
We see you. You want more. More aliveness. More intimacy. More delicious, toe-curling wholeness. You feel the pull toward deeper expression—to touch the untamed, the electric, the edges of your desire. But you want to feel safe getting there.
We’re here for that.
Programs We Offer:
Think of it as your personal syllabus for DESIRE.
We guide you through the deep work of reconnecting to your body and reclaiming your sovereignty. Whether through embodiment practices, kink exploration, or rewriting old stories that keep you small, the goal is always the same:
To bring you home to yourself and to feel wildly, unapologetically alive while doing it.
The Empowered Submissive Summer 2025
Find power and sovereignty in claiming your submissiveness. Own the fullness of this embodied expression and rewrite your relationship with power. If you want to deepen your submissive identity—whether in play, in life, or in devotion—this space is for you.
The Temple of Yes
October 2025
4 days in Austin, Texas. This isn’t just a retreat. This is a rewiring. A reclamation. A remembering that your desire is not a problem to solve—it’s a pulse to follow. We are reclaiming YES as a sacred, electric force in our lives.
The Velvet Chamber
Winter 2025
Curious about kink but don’t know your rope from your restraints? This online month-long experience + optional in-person daylong workshop for partners will have you feeling confident and turned on by your own aliveness, expression, and self-discovery.
The Erotic Playground
Coming in 2026
A monthly virtual space to explore, experiment, and get deliciously lost in curiosity.
Something Stirring Inside You?
A whisper. A pull. A hunger you can’t quite name—but don’t want to ignore.
Step In. Let’s Find Out Where It Leads.
“Kari and Nicholette are skilled facilitators who walk the walk in addition to talking the talk — using triumphs and challenges from their own explorations to inform their teaching. You’re in good hands here. Good hands that may or may not be bound together with ropes, chains, or cuffs.”
— 2024 RETREAT PARTICIPANT
Where Safety Meets Aliveness, and Wholeness is Your Birthright
You don’t have to choose between safety and freedom. You don’t have to silence the parts of you that crave intensity or aliveness to feel grounded. We believe you can have it all—and more.
At Erotic Reclamation, we create spaces where you can:
Explore and Experiment Safely
We create a space with guardrails and support to explore, where you feel grounded & held while experiencing new terrains of intimacy.
Get Alive And In Tune With Your Body
As highly trained embodiment facilitators, we open accessible pathways to feel, listen, and know your body's primal truth.
Explore Your S€xual Identity and Expression
Discover who you are as a s€xual being, whether for the first time or in new ways.
Reclaim Power from Shame
Break free from societal conditioning and internalized shame. Fully owning your desire isn't only worthy—it's also a gift to oneself and others.
Integrate Desire and Boundaries
Learn to articulate what you want and honor what you don’t. Experience the joy of saying yes and the power of claiming your no with your whole body.
Connect with Like-minded Individuals
Get a beautiful and open-minded community of people to support you on your journey.
Your Desire is Calling. Will You Answer?
You don’t have to know exactly what you want—just that you want more.